9/3/12

You Are a Brand


If you were to ask about my favorite brand of clothing, I’d say whatever is hanging on the New Arrival rack at TJ Maxx. If you were to ask about my brand, the one I present to you, I wouldn’t be as quick to respond.

Recently, I read about branding ourselves, which I thought might be a slimy way of sprucing up and packaging together who we are. The author talked about labeling individuals as you would label a can of soda (by the way, I’d totally be Vernors pop), and he almost lost me there because although I like Vernors, I don’t want to be a can of Vernors, you know?

Then, the author went on to say no one responds to our efforts to be someone other than who we are. Regardless of our spinning and weaving, people see through it, and ta-da. Branding made sense.

An author’s brand is what you are known for, and therefore, I am the brand of me.

I can’t pretend I live in Canada, make lunchbox printables, and write things like this"I have never mothered a girl into a woman before and you can’t build Rome in a day or even in a whole lifetime and the largest a mother ever is, is just before the swollen birthing, and after that she spends the rest of her life small, so very small."

This is not me because although I lived in Sault St. Marie, which is sort of like Canada, it's not Canada. I don't make lunchbox printables because I struggle with just making a lunch, our printer has been out of color ink for a long, long time, and wow, lunchbox printables are so sweet and creative. Oh, and the insight about the mother/daughter relationship bleeds brilliance. 


This is 1/3 due to the fact that our family camera broke, 1/3 because I dropped my daughter’s underwater camera in the river, and although it is an underwater camera, I’m pretty sure that means you still have to find it and press the shutter button, and 1/3 because I don’t have “the eye". Oh, and I'm not good with grace.

I can’t arrive here in this space and tell you how our family lives to love people even the hard ones because lately we feel like hibernating. 

Enough said.

So, if I'm not all of the above, what can I tell you about the brand of me?

I believe in the underdog. I laugh too hard. I love a well-placed curse word. Sometimes I lose my temper and say, “Don’t ask me to polish your nails again!” I ramble on and on except for the times when I decide not to speak. God surprises me every day, and here’s a biggie (yep, here’s the meat of my brand): John 13:34 says, I give you a command. Love each other. You must love each other as I have loved you. I think this actually means we are supposed to love each other as He has loved us. You know, that last part is just a guess.

PS Please add sarcasm to my brand.

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Now you go. What are you known for? Are you the mom who throws fab parties? The family that takes in stray animals? Do you write to encourage others? What’s your brand? Oh, and if you don’t like this question, fine. Tell me what kind of pop you would be. Vernors, anyone?


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29 comments:

Melanie W. said...

A good question, my friend. I would hope that my brand would be something like the following: the friend who cares, the mom who loves her kids' friends like her own, the wife who brings her husband out of his shell, and the teacher who hugs her (preschool) students every day, even if it isn't politically acceptable to do so, b/c it may well be the only hug any of them get today.

I imagine my brand would also include the woman who needs to get back to the gym and the christian who needs to be more diligent about her walk, but those are harder to admit! Still true though....

Wendy said...

This is so good friend! Just had this conversation with a friend the other day. We were discussing my resistance to narrow down my blog niche. She finally looked at me and said "who says you have to? you know God created every facet of you. shine as you friend." One of the most encouraging conversations I've had. Loved what you said about our brand being us. Our true selves. Thanks so much for sharing! Blessings!

Flower Patch Farmgirl said...

Can't even tell you how many times I've choked on the first sip of Vernors. (Does it make you cough a little choke too, right at first?? Or maybe it's just me...)

I'm terrified of this brand question. My number one pin, by FAR, is of Crack Bark. That's just not what I aim to be known for...

Hands to Work, Hearts to God said...

Never thought about what my brand would be but hopefully it would be a brand with integrity, meaning what I say is how I live my life. It would be a brand with loving and serving God as the center, my family, my community and those who whom God gives me to love and care for. Patsy from
HeARTworks and
papemelroti

Alicia said...

Oh, Amy, your brand is marvelously refreshing- tell-it-like-it-is truth! No matter how you label yourself, I love to visit you here :) And, by the way, my fourteen year old just announced today that we must be the only family that NEVER has color ink when he needs to print a project. Guess we're one of two, huh? Have a great week, my friend.

HopeUnbroken said...

oh, i LOVE this!!!
i'm so glad you didn't leave the sarcasm out :-) yes, it has to be carefully crafted, but when used well. . . it's priceless!
my brand. hmmm. maybe i'll ask klout???
i've been thinking about this for several months. and while i tend to think of myself as rather eclectic in my writing, the underlying tone always has to do with encouragement. the plate that i serve it up on may change from time to time, but that is always the meal. make sense?
have a great week!

Katie said...

I think that sounds just like my kind of brand, Amy!

I've never really thought too much about my own. I know I'm a nurturing person, but I don't know that it necessarily comes across in my writing. I believe in authenticity and I can't be all serious or all funny. Gotta have a mix of both. Besides that, I don't know. I'll have to think on it!

Wendy Paine Miller said...

Sort of a blend of encouragement and brain poking. I think deeply therefore I try to inspire others to do the same (I've got a little sarcasm in me too). ;-)
~ Wendy

Elizabeth @wynnegraceappears said...

Amy, love you, sister. Something in my knower tells me you are a walking talking bottle of John 13:34. Can't wait to meet in in real life. God's got a plan for that. Forgot to tell you :) Sending you a twitter DM sometime today on Compassion Blogging. K?

Ro Elliott said...

Oh the curse of trying to be someone we are not...to come to know we are all really different...but really special...not less than someone else...just different...and I am a work in process here too...thanks for being honest...that is one of your brandings~

Brandee Shafer said...

Ok, so my brand (wide-open, troubled, Jesus-loving but random) isn't working for me, in the blogosphere. But, lately, Amy? I'm not really working for me, either. I think I've lost it, a little. Not sure what to do about it. Turkey dogs seem to help, especially first thing in the ayem.

Nancy Franson said...

You know, this is interesting, because just last week when I read one of your posts I actually thought, "Amy has a brand." Your brand is absolutely what you described. You use your blog to kick us in the behind and get us moving toward doing what Jesus said--loving the least of these.

I know I'm supposed to have/be a brand, and I'm still not sure I know what it is. Or, if I do, I haven't yet been able to put it into words. I'm just sort of an imperfect, middle-aged, follower of Jesus who is about half crazy most of the time. And I type things and post them on the internet. World without end, amen. What the heck kind of brand is that?

jill said...

Both of my novels so far champion the underdog--it's kind of the theme. I hope that my brand is grace. I want to let others know that no one has to measure up to be loved. If we really believed that? Wow. Failing that, I'll be an Old Navy or Aero sweatshirt.

Gaby said...

I really want to comment but I think I need to think about this a little longer. Fair?

Jean Wise said...

You are making me think today. Love how you wrote this: the honesty and just be me message. Knowing we are a child of God may be the only brand we really need. Good thoughts, Amy

Loraine said...

I love this Amy. It makes me smile because it is just so you. I love that you laugh loud and root for the under dog. I would add that you are an awesome teacher who believes that even criminals can be reformed :-)

You should also add funny to your sarcastic.

Me? As for pop- I think I am just plain old Diet Pepsi. What am I known for-- well I am the mom who will invite you over even if my house isn't clean and laundry is spread all over. I hope I am known for grace, encouragement and hope, but there are days when judgemental and crabby win out.

Oh and the Heath thinks you should cuss less. :)

Love this post and love you!

marlece said...

I have never heard of Vernors. You always bring out things I'm like, "whoa!" I love that you just don't know how to even place judgement on those that are in need you dive right in see a need and BOOM take care of it. ADMIRE, yes I do!!!

My brand? hmmmmm.....'always learning a new way to love' (these boys of mine keep me thinking ALL the time, their brain just doesn't work like mine!)

2busy said...

I kind of don't understand that whole branding thing. I've heard that before. I am me, I am who I am. So what is that?

Laura@OutnumberedMom said...

Oh, Amy ... I love your brand! I thought I knew what mine was, but now I'm not so sure. The Lord is workin' on me. Maybe that's my brand.

Loved this post!

Lori McClure said...

You know I struggle with this kind of thing for myself, but I love your brand: organic (as in being integral to the whole), earthy, fun, relatable and relevant. I could so be your PR girl, lol. And the best part is that you're consistently you. Very important and impressive :)

Love you and thanks for fielding all my emails lately (as if you have nothing better to do).

redemptionsbeauty said...

Love this, love the way you are you, sarcasm and all. You remind me so much of a friend that sometimes I hear her talking when I read you. (Weird I know) Thanks for this Amy, I actually really needed it at this.very.moment. God is great like that.

Loraine said...

There should be a way to "like" someone's comment. I like Lori's. She should be your PR girl.

joyfulmombaude.com said...

I love this--I saw Vernors and I said "got to be from Michigan!" Last time I was home I forgot to buy some . . .

My first blog was called "in everything give thanks" and I've been hanging onto that--not sure it is a brand but it gets me through each and every day.

Be Blessed.

SimplyDarlene said...

sarcasm and a wee bit o' potty mouth, i reckon if we look close, we dangle our legs off the same shelf

blessings.

Julie said...

Amy, it freaks me out a little bit when I find out how we're similar, haha. But I think that's a good thing! I honestly continue to forget to take pictures, I don't have "the eye" either, it's okay. I laugh too hard also. I recently read about branding and considered 'what is my brand?' and am trying to make this for real. Thanks for being you.

Sarah said...

"no one responds to our efforts to be someone other than who we are. Regardless of our spinning and weaving, people see through it."

Oh wow. Amen to this entire post. This has really been on my mind these days. I think I spend 50% of my time trying not to spin and weave, and 50% of my time trying to figure out if I am spinning and weaving. But I just can't do the whole blog marketing thing, for marketing's sake, you know?? I just want to write something authentic.

So nice to meet you!

Crazyblessed said...

Amy you just completely cracked me up! And I am so excited to see the Vernors pic because I am from Michigan! A great take on branding! :)

Danelle said...

Stop making me thInk Amy. It is exhausting. Oh. Ok. I love you. :) I am really praying about my voice and being authentic and true. How did you know? You are in head. I just know it. :)

Amy Sullivan said...

Ohhh, geeesh. I think you guys make me smile.

Thanks for all of your thoughtful comments. I appreciate you, your comments, and your hearts.

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