8/26/12

11 Ways to Encourage Misery While Waiting


All of us are on our way somewhere.

To college, to motherhood, to publication, to full-time work, to starting a business, to buying a house, to reaching out.

And because we are on our way, we wait, but waiting takes a long time. Think of road trips traveled as a child. Your destination always seemed far, the car ride long, and when the heck would you arrive, anyway?

While you wait to achieve your goal, there are easy steps to make yourself totally miserable. Interested? Read on.

Pout about how long travel to your goal takes.


Quit activities you enjoy.

Give people the hidden finger (Don’t ask).

Forget to enjoy small successes because you focus on the big.

Work more and pray less.

Get up early, stay up late, and devote every free second to pushing yourself towards your goal.

Refuse to engage in fun.

Complain.

Declare exercise optional.

Allow preoccupation to sap your free minutes.
 Can you add to the list? What can you do to allow misery into your life while you travel to reach your goal?
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7 comments:

2busy said...

Great tips, not to do? I used to obsess over things I couldn't change. It sure made me unhappy. I am working on that every day. My husband helps remind me when I start getting obsessive.

Melanie W. said...

I could add a few to the list as well, ways to make the wait much more miserable:

- Listen when a little voice inside you says 'this will never happen, you will never get there, you will always be here'. Get depressed and even more miserable.

- Don't enjoy the spot that God has you in right now. Then feel gulity for this. Lather, rinse, repeat.

- Feel jealous of the people in your life who have accomplished what you are waiting for/striving for.

Mariah Magagnotti said...

Wait. Exercise isn't optional??

Kathy S. said...

Good words. Here is my facebook status from yesterday regarding my waiting:

Everyone needs a BFF like mine. I was expressing my mind-quagmire to her tonight. The part about having difficulty letting go of things without having a concrete goal to move toward. She said, "Would you like me to pray for you, that you would be thrown into a well like Joseph and get where you are going that way?" I'm still laughing!!!...I LOVE you Holly! I was smiling all the way home thinking about that! ♥

yep. Help me wait with grace Lord!

Gaby said...

How about "go out of your way to solve the problem yourself, making things happen, when you KNOW God is asking you to wait"? Nothing can unsure your failure more than that!

Andrea said...

Let's see...
Convince myself God doesn't really love me

Tell myself God obviously doesn't want me to achieve that goal any and that it was my own delusions that led me down that path

Amy Sullivan said...

All great tips. I totally forgot about jealousy and not enjoying the spot I'm in now. Yes, yes, additional ways to encourage misery!

Thanks for reading, ladies.

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