4/25/12

Roadside Births and Ruby Do


This is Ruby.

We call her Ru, Ru-Ru, Ruby Duby, Ruby Duby Do (Think Scooby-Doo).

For a short period of time, we called her Business because she is always into monkey business, but then she started telling people her name was Business and therefore, we nixed that name.

Last night, my husband was giving Ruby a bath, and I heard him say, “Is your name chicken-fried steak?” (Very random since I don’t think either of us have ever eaten chicken-fried steak, but I’m pretty sure it involves gravy).

To his comment Ruby replied, “No, call me Popsicle.”

Ruby was born on the side of the road. No, no. I wasn’t holding out on traveling to the hospital, instead a super fast birth and road construction played havoc on my birth plan, which was basically show up at the hospital and get shot-up with a big, fat  epidural. FYI: Random strangers on the side of the road don’t usually carry big, fat epidurals in their trunks so don’t bother asking.

Ruby’s birth describes her wild-haired ways perfectly, and it also cemented my love for mothers. Moms who struggle, not just with birth, but with life. Moms, the glue of most families. The sticky part that holds everything together.

Mother’s Day is quickly approaching, and my friend Adriel is hosting a Bloggers for Birth Kits initiative. This initiative not only celebrates mothers, but Bloggers for Birth Kits encourages the online community to rally and help moms in developing nations get supplies they need for a clean birth.

Take a peek at birth kit contents.

clean birth kit contents bloggers for birth kits


Looks a little different than a birthing suite, yes? Can you believe just $2.00-$3.00 can provide a mom with the supplies she needs to help deliver her baby?

And now for the question rolling around your head. How can I help? Oh, so glad you asked.

Buy a birth kit! It is only $10.00 for 5. Last year, bloggers pulled together and collected money for over 2,000 kits. Click here for the direct link to purchase birth kits (make sure to note Bloggers for Birth Kits on form when purchasing!) and here to read more from Adriel. Hello, great Mother's Day gift for all of those moms in your life!

Help raise awareness by posting about the cause on your blog, facebook, pinterest, and twitter (hash tag #B4BirthKits).

Make a birth kit. Assemble one yourself or gather a group of girlfriends, a moms group, work associates, or a church group to make a box full of them! Find a how-to video at Adriel's place. Mail your kits to: Adriel Booker, Bloggers for Birth Kits, PO Box 6221, Townsville, Queensland, 4810, Australia
 And since we are talking mommies and birth stories let's hear yours! Share, share. Any crazy tales out there or did you make it to the hospital with plenty of time to spare? I'd love to know your story better.

 The Mommyhood Memos Bloggers for Birth Kits



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16 comments:

HopeUnbroken said...

well, i guess you found a "cause" for the labor & delivery nurse, now didn't you?
and i wasn't one when i had my own kiddos, and it was my husband's stellar police driving (and no construction, thankfully) that had us flying under the hospital canopy just. in. time. both my second and third daughters were born very shortly after arrival. in fact, with #2, the doctor they pulled from another room didn't even introduce himself. just delivered my girl and left. i've often thought that was quite rude for such an intimate moment, LOL!
anyway, love this idea, amy, and i'll be looking into it for sure.
happy wednesday!
steph

Adriel (The Mommyhood Memos) said...

Love it Amy!! What an awesome post. I so appreciate you lending your influence to help raise awareness for B4BK!! And thank you for your kind words as well. :)

You know how I love your crazy birth story. I love to refer to my "friend who had her baby on the side of the road". And I love that Popsicle's wild birth lives on in her personality. I think the birth experience is significant like that. With my first he was breech - unplanned c/s. And yup, he's very independent with a mind of his own! And with my second, a very long but amazing natural birth. Much more peaceful. So far he IS a pretty peaceful guy... but he can also holler with the best of them. Perhaps he took notes from his unmedicated mother. ;) Ha!

Jamie said...

This is amazing! I've never heard of this organization, but it sounds really awesome. I will have to look into it more. Thanks for bringing it to our attention.

As for birth stories, well, I have five and I don't think you want a wordy kind of gal telling you five different birth stories. However, one of my besties had her sixth on the side of the road in a church parking lot. Pretty funny story, but glad it wasn't me. Hee, hee.

marlece said...

ha, this is great, I want to make a kit! I always love your 'birth' story. I love birth stories period but this one is at top of the list for the best. It fits you so well. I love it!

Brandee Shafer said...

I love it when you sling something so personal at us.

My labor was induced with all three of my children. Cade (my first) was born 16 days late. They had no clue he'd be a whopping 9 lbs 5 oz, having cooked so long. The dr who delivered him (the only one in the practice I hadn't met) was laughing as Cade was exited my body. I was miffed and asked why...why in the world was he laughing? "Your baby really doesn't want to be born," the dr answered. "He's shaking his head 'no' on the way out."

The girls were each induced a week early. Clementine was 9 lbs 7 oz and Charleigh 9 lbs, even. Obviously, I have some sugar issues. Proud to report: I've had a total of 3 stitches for 3 children.

Gaby said...

How about we drove three hours and had enough time to take pictures of us "before" becoming parents for the first time, and even though I did not deliver our child, we still had to meet her for the first time at the hospital because she was sick and her pediatrician's office was at the hospital. Ironic, huh?
I don't have birth stories, but I do have two "the first time I saw your face" stories!

Flower Patch Farmgirl said...

Well, you know I love this. :) And we use many of those nick-names for our own Ruby Dooby Do. :)

amandatdodson said...

I think you're the best. Love your big ol' let's change the world heart!

Loraine said...

I have two very boring birth stories. Got to the hospital in plenty of time and had an epidural both times. It feels kind of like not having a "testimony" after reading about Ruby on the side of the road. Love her. And love this post!

Amy Sullivan said...

Steph,
Look at you putting a picture with your comment...you rule breaker. I also broke my own rule and used a recent picture of Ruby!

Amy Sullivan said...

Adriel,
Love what you are doing. The Bloggers for Birth Kits is fabulous. Why don't we use some social media to change things. Thank you, thank you. I know this and having a new baby is a lot of work!

Amy Sullivan said...

Gaby,
I think "First time I saw your face stories" get me more choked up than actual birth stories. However, both produce some serious tears.

Amy Sullivan said...

Shannan,
Thanks for the push to share.

Amy Sullivan said...

Amanda D,
This is not the kind of weather you head to the beach in...hint, hint. You know, just in case you were thinking of canceling a beach trip this weekend, I know of something you could participate in, IRL at my house.

Amy Sullivan said...

Loraine,
I'm not sure that I think any birth story is boring. I love them all!

Abby said...

Just poppin' in to say 'hi' and 'love you!' and Ruby is surely a fun one...& oh my, will she need some good counseling for her identity crisis in the future and sure to be nomadic life;}

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