Do you have a one, minute moment? A tiny slice of time from your life in which someone shared words that seared your heart and impacted you forever.
I bet we can all think of one, minute moments.
“Our lives are an accumulation of moments. And much of who we are today can point back to those stirring and striking moments that started to shape our idea of who we are, what we want to be, the value we carry, the importance of our life in this world.”—Brianne McKoy
One of my moments involved finding Christ through a Navajo medicine man.
Running from my world, I ended up on a Navajo Reservation in New Mexico. I hoped six months of teaching in a desolate section of the Four Corners would give me perspective. I learned after six hours in an empty boarding school that silence, especially the haunting kind, isn’t always good for perspective.
U2 front man, Bono said something once about Christians making him feel “itchy”. I understood that feeling. Uncomfortable, like a bad sweater you wear because it looks good, but not because it is warm or comfortable or something you need.
Honestly, I didn’t need God; I knew people who needed him, but I wasn’t one of them. I found my way through life leaning on few, and that’s why I planted myself in the desert, to figure things out without all of life’s noise.
And that’s when we met.
No, silly, not me and God.
Me and a medicine man.
Now, I understand God can use anyone to lead someone to Christ, but I never saw the old, Navajo guy with dirty jeans and long hair as a potential evangelist.
So when talk at the boarding school turned to skin-walkers and spirits and strange happenings inside our apartment, my roommate and I knew exactly who to go to with our questions—the big guy.
No, silly, not God. We sought out the resident medicine/handy man who worked at the school.
While painting, he patiently listened as two college girls babbled tales of suspected specters and reoccurring nightmares. When we finished talking, he held his paintbrush in one hand and looked directly at me.
“Do you believe in God?”
And there it was, the big question, and the big question came from someone with no agenda. Someone I didn’t know, and someone I was pretty sure didn’t care what my answer would be.
“Yes,” I replied with an unexpected certainty.
“Then you need to pray to him.”
Then he turned to my roommate. He pointed his paintbrush at her.
“Do you believe in God?” he repeated.
“No,” she replied.
“Then you need to get some cedar and burn it.”
And we left.
We drove to town where I promptly bought a NIV Bible, and she quickly acquired some cedar. Twelve years later, I’m pretty confident I ended up with the better purchase.
One moment that changed me forever.
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Our family sponsors a child through Compassion International, and I also blog for Compassion, which means I signed-up to share regularly about Compassion happenings.
Recently, the president of Compassion International, Wess Strafford, wrote a book called Just a Minute. Just a Minute pushes readers to think about how long it takes to make a difference in someone's life. Interested in hearing more?
Question for you: Can you think of a minute, either as a child or as an adult, that someone said words that left you changed?






13 comments:
This is why I love you! You can write about anything without making it sound tired. I love this story, and you managed to talk about the beginning of your conversion experience without making it sound like a Steven Curtis Chapman song (no offense to S.C.C., but I think you know what I mean.).
So good.
And, you're right. I have so many of those one-minute moments that have shaped me. Some good and some bad. Like the moment I embarrassingly shared with my h.s. English teacher that I knew I was supposed to be a writer and a mother. She gently encouraged me in just a moment by not seeing me as childish or silly. She believed in me not only by saying the 'right' words. It was more the way she looked in my eyes, and I knew she believed me, that she believed in me. She was an amazing teacher.
i love this bit of insight into your life! and i love how God patiently pursues. patiently but with fervor.
many one-minute moments. . . but right now all that comes to mind is a Russian judge with all the power in her hands to change our lives forever. and her incredible humility when she said, "yes, this boy will be better off with your family than if he stayed here."
and she changed my life forever.
hope your week gets off to a great start!
steph
First, I just have to say, after all the comment love you gave me today, I feel very, very loved. I'm so glad that you are my friend.
One moment -- I can name a few. When I first felt the Holy Spirit, when I first saw my husband, when I stood up at the WOJ conference and pledged to be one in a million. Lots of moments that were crucial.
I agree with Lori, although she is a gifted writer as well. She stated it better than I, so I will let her words stand.
As for one minute moments, yep I have one. 4ish years ago I agreed to commit to spending 3 days a week in the Word. Yes, I realize it is supposed to be every day and that I am a pastor's wife for crying out loud. But at that time in my life, I wasn't in the Word at all with any kind of regularity. Through some other prodding's I knew I needed to get my act together there, so I decided to start with a commitment I wouldn't fail miserably at and went ahead with 3 days a week. I haven't looked back since. Today I can say I am often in there more than 3x a week. It has radically changed my relationship with Christ (imagine that) and from what I can tell of the timeline of my life, it was just in time. My goal is daily, but sometimes that doesn't happen. But what has happened over these 4 years is that my soul is starved without it. I have fallen in love with meeting with God through His word...no matter how cliche that sounds.
Thanks for the post. Love how God has worked in your life and the gift He has given you to communicate that with others.
I also love Mr. Stafford. Thanks for sharing.
love this window into your heart, amy. a pivotal point in my marriage cam 16 years into it, 20 years we had been together. a counselor asked me, "and what happens if he is mad for a little while?" i had TOILED 20 years to make sure that he was ALWAYS bappy. for him to NEVER be angry or uncomfortable. to let go of that responsibility was....wow.
Girls,
I love these small glimpses into your lives. Big examples, big, big moments. All so different too.
nice...very cool...you have an awesome conversion story and yeah i got a few of those one minutes in my life for sure...
a missions trip to KY...kids i had been loving on...finding out about their home life and the abuse by the local pastor....turned my stomach and i knew i would work with kids and find them there...
This is my second favorite of your posts. (My first favorite is about the NOT car accident.) The great thing about this story is that, clearly, the medicine man thought praying was the best answer because you could've burned cedar as a believer. No more ghosties after?
I love, love this post. You are an amazing storyteller. {you've got memoir written all over you, girl!).
Love your new e-zine, btw. Rock on!
I was born in the four corners and lived my first couple of years at a Navajo mission where my dad was a teacher. I love it that God found you there under the New Mexico sky and asked you a direct question from the guy with the paintbrush.
One of my minutes, not where I came to know Christ, but where I got spanked was when my husband and I were a young married couple. I was the "seasoned" Christian, he the baby. We were facing the inevitable financial challenges of newlywedness and he got right up to me and said"Alyssa, you talk a big game about faith, but you don't know the first thing about living it."
He was right. I was challenged to live what I said I believed.
Not that long ago, I came across and old letter from you when you lived on the res. That seems like eons ago.
Wow! I really really enjoyed treading your "moment." How radical! Thank you for sharing this, Amy!
Just a Minute didn’t just touch my heart, it stirred me to action. It’s a great collection of stories of pivotal moments when someone spoke a word of encouragement, or noticed a child, or named that child’s strength—and the results lasted forever. After being inspired by these stories, I decided it wouldn’t take much for me to offer that kind of encouragement. I have been much more intentional, since I read this book, in slowing down a little, making time in my life to give love and attention to children--my own teenagers, a friend's preschoolers, even children I don't know but happen to encounter in my daily life
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