9/20/11

When You Plan Something Awesome and It Turns Out Sucky



I developed a plan, and it was brilliant, in my head.

My family and a group of friends would hold a Shoe Cutting Party for Sole Hope, a local agency seeking to provide shoes for children in Africa.

I watched the demo video, and although I am not a crafter, the project looked simple.

Trace, trace, trace. Cut, cut, cut. Safety pin together, and voila, a pair of shoes.

I emailed friends, created patterns, cued the video, and sat back.

I bet we could create shoes for a whole village. 

The only problem was the jean cutting scissors weren’t really fabric scissors, and the pinking shears were non-existent, and the little, plastic, heel pieces were difficult to cut out, and oh, the whole idea of creating an entire shoe out of matching fabric was completely lost.

So, after an hour and a half of trace, trace, trace and cut, cut, cut, outfitting a whole village in shoes, turned out to be something closer to creating two pairs of shoes.

Two pairs, people. Did I mention sixteen people worked on this?

Sigh.

What about you? What brilliant plan of yours turned out a tad suck-ish?

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Sole Hope is the cool cause of the week (see sidebar). Don't let our lack of the right supplies deter you from creating shoes with your friends. Click over to check them out. Although this is an organization out of Asheville, NC, shoe cutting parties can be held anywhere.

Oh, and what became of all the mismatched shoe pieces? Some of my sassy, high school students have been enlisted to repair our handiwork.

If you have a cool cause you’d like me to highlight, drop me an email.

*Thanks to Lori for the Sole Hope lead.

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22 comments:

Carol said...

Just dropped by to see what you had going on because I had a minute. I love to read what you write. You have a gift my friend! :)

Gaby said...

I once joined a group of women who were making quilts for the orphans in Swaziland who live outdoors in the brush. It was my first sweing project. I took the materials they gave out, the quilt squares, the binding, the back and the quilt is still sitting, unfinished, in my closet. Not for lack of trying. Three different people tried to help me but quilt-making is apparently not my thing. I got over the guilt eventually, but I still cannot finish it. Sigh.

Amy Sullivan said...

Gaby,
I have had a half started blanket for Project Linus for 2 years. I'm pretty sure no child will want the shabby thing! Good story.

Carol,
Hey, girl. Always good to see you.

HopeUnbroken said...

well, i don't remember because i gave up. . . probably close to 20 years ago??? this story sounds like some aspect of my life. every day. i guess we try, find where our giftings lie, and where they lie NOT :-) and anything remotely crafty is not in my realm of ability. i haven't totally given up, for the sake of my girls, but i tend to gravitate toward areas where i feel i'm guaranteed at least a small measure of success?
again, i say kudos to you for your attitude and initiative. that is what continues to inspire me about you, about this space here :-)
steph

Katie said...

Um...yeah. My second hour CLASS today qualifies!! My students are in for a RUDE awakening tomorrow, 'cause I DON'T like sucky mornings... :)

GLENDA CHILDERS said...

Parenting is a funny thing . . . I bet you made a huge impact on your kids from this less than perfect experience. "Mom . . . remember that time we tried to make shoes for an entire African village." I can hear this for years to come in your family.

You are a delightful and intentional parent.

Fondly,
Glenda

Amy Sullivan said...

Glenda,
You always encourage me. Thanks for your words today, and with each of your visits.

I think even when things turn out suck-ish, there's good that comes from it...

lori said...

Oh, I'm so sorry it didn't turn out like you hoped :( But, so many of your plans work out perfectly, so one bad one is a great record :)

Melody said...

Looks like I'm the only one laughing out loud at this but I find it hysterical. It's totally something I would do! I applaud you for trying though and for sharing with us how it flopped. We need to hear we're not the only ones. I have so many flop stories I don't know where to begin....how bout when I spoke to a hundred ladies and I said "um" all the way through and was broken out in one big hive...which leads me to answer your question yesterday: I have not spoken ever since that horrid time! What's creepy is that I totally feel God calling me into more of sharing our story. Next Wed will the first time since so you can pray for me...that it won't suck and all the church people go home and never come back. Yeah, do that prayer for me,k. Thanks! And take a pic when the HS girls repair the shoes. Ha!

Nancy said...

I'm so glad you shared this and, I'm with Glenda. Your kids will always remember this one. Who knows, maybe some gifted shoe-making elf will read this delightful post and actually create more shoes than you could ever have imagined.

journeytoepiphany said...

I just served at a garage sale at church. The proceeds were going to the poor and homeless. Problem was? Not enough help. I am sooooo sore. This weekend? I'll be doing a garage sale for the benefit of my college bound son. I'm reaching out to the community of my own home. I hope it turns out okay... :}

emily wierenga said...

you're so awesome amy :) you make me smile. xo

j. littlejohn said...

happens all the time, not that i've ever made shoes, but if i did, i guarantee i would do worse than this

Carolyn Counterman said...

Amy, just about anything crafty that I try to do turns out sucky. It isn't my forte and I don't try to force it by practicing constantly. I do get disappointed when something that seems fool-proof doesn't turn out good. Like the Crayola crayon maker. We bought it to have fun with the grandkids, but it was not nearly as fun as the commercial made it look. We do manage to have fun with shrinky dinks, though. The kids draw and I get oven-duty. So far I haven't overcooked many of them. :)

Christina Klas said...

Oooh.... that's too bad. A brilliant plan, gone awry... I did that recently when I was going to create these fantastic chocolate chip cookie bowls for ice cream by baking the cookies over the bottom of a muffin pan... HORRIBLE... supposed to turn out great but I lost the whole recipe because I couldn't get the cookie off the pan! bummer.... so much wasted dough.

Stacy @ Heartprints of God said...

While the souls of these shoes might not be much to stand on, the lesson of serving others is a solid foundation on which to build the spiritual house of your children...not to mention the 16 people who showed up to strengthen their foundation, too!
I have a feeling you did "soul work" that day...just maybe not in the way you intended. :)
It's just like God to bless that way-
Loved this-
~Stacy

Michelle DeRusha@Graceful said...

Can I admit that this kind of made me laugh? More of a commisserating laugh, of course.

I had to quit Meals on Wheels. The boys hated it. HATED it. We only did it every six weeks, but it was like life was ending every time. The complaints. The moaning. The gnashing of teeth. Noah gagged over the smell of the cooked food. He even rubbed Vicks under his nose before we left for the route. Then he took to just bringing the jar along with him and clamping to his nose like a feedbag for the whole 2.5 hours we were in the car.

It just plain wore me out, it really did. So I quit.

I don't feel good about it. We did do it for a year, in my defense. But still. I feel like a total quitter. Nice message to send the kids, eh?

I think I may need to write about this -- thanks for the idea!!!

Jenn said...

Amy this post makes me smile because this is sooo something that would happen to me. I love it .. way to go for it though!

Heart n Soul said...

Hey there, Sole hope is amazing ... I recently blogged about their fabulous cause in my "Inspire me' series ... as one of my guest bloggers. Great post.

dawnkristine said...

I think I am so worried about doing the right thing, that I never get on the limb far enough to be "suck-ish" I think I have rarely taken the risk, thank you again for another thought provoking post...I will start thinking about that limb again...

Delicate Fortress Creations said...

This is awesome and so encouraging Amy! Thank you for posting what reality is for me all the time! Love the project idea!

Dru said...

Amy, you should try another shoe cutting party! What Sole Hope sends has been improved in a huge way with feedback and time. Here is a link to a special kit for the Holidays: Holiday Shoe Party Kit http://bit.ly/ShyHeU

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