8/1/11

A Wall of Birthday Cards and Weeds

We arrived ready to pull weeds.

We rang her doorbell twice, and then I heard footsteps, slow and deliberate.

She smiled and guided us through her tiny home. Greeting cards lined the mantle and every tabletop in the living room.

She led us to a small flowerbed in back of the house.

“I’d pull them myself, but I just can’t see.”

I nodded. I knew nothing about flowers.

We started to pull, yanking out as many flowers as weeds, but after ten minutes, we finished the job.

“Wonderful, just wonderful. What an improvement!”

And we giggled because we knew the flowerbed hadn’t changed much.

She invited us inside and insisted we drink a Coke.

“You sure have a lot of cards.” There must have been fifty.

“Tomorrow is my birthday. I’m ninety-two. These came from all around the world. Some are even in different languages.”

I picked up the one with teddy bears and balloons. Yes, what was that, German?

"I worked with the Red Cross for years. I met so many people. I’m glad they remember me. I never had a husband, no children, just friends, friends that are far away now."

Silence.

I picked up another card. Someone filled the entire inside with handwritten, warm wishes. I imagined each sender taking the time to buy, write, and send a card to let her know they still think of her.

“Are you doing anything special for your birthday?”

“Yes," she smiled.

"Visiting with you.”

Question for you: Do you know someone who is lonely? Neighbor, child, friend, relative? How do you show that person extra attention?

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Linking with Jen and the girls.

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35 comments:

Cindy Bultema said...

Beautiful!!! Thanks for inspiring me to look for ways our family can serve in our community!
Cindy :)

Jen said...

So sweet. Yes, if I look at my church and my community with new eyes, I will find them.

Kendal said...

love.

Sarah Jackson said...

This is lovely. Thanks for an apt reminder of one of the ways we can build up our Body.

Nancy said...

Spending time with elderly friends often turns out to be a gift I've given myself. They have lived lives, rich in experiences and stories. You gave us just a hint of this dear lady's life--Red Cross, friends from around the world--what stories she must have!

Melody said...

Love her response to what she would be doing special for her bday. So sweet!
We visit with our elderly friends and when we do it's such a treat. Today, in fact we stopped by our 90 year old friend's apartment who said she'd been waiting since her birthday to see us...which was back in March. Oops.
Also, we happen to have elderly neighbors and so we'll take them over a small portion of whatever we're cooking at home if it turns out right. That has been more of a hit than I ever realized. Cooking for one when you're older is such a hard thing.
Opportunities invade us when we look for them.

Theresa Miller said...

Awe, beautiful. It reminds me of my step-grandma I wrote about in June, who also had an upcoming birthday and wished for nothing...but clearly appreciated her time with us.

Honestly, it's not easy to step out of the normal sync of life to make these special efforts, but it is sooo worth it when we do!

Thank you for your example!

lori said...

Beautiful, Amy. I do love you!

Amy Sullivan said...

Nancy,
I know. She did have stories and spoke seven languages and had all these crazy beautiful things from around the world in her home. Such a neat lady.

Amy Sullivan said...

Melody,
I really like your idea about cooking. It is hard to cook for one. I've never really thought about that though. Good one.

ps great new pic!

Amy Sullivan said...

Theresa,
I don't remember that post...now I'm going to have to go look it up.

Debbie Maxwell Allen said...

What a beautiful way to spend a day!

~Debbie

Kendra Cameron-Jarvis said...

This made me miss my Nanny. What a special person you are to take the time to think of others. I know it was only pulling weeds to you but it meant so much more to her.

Blessings,
Kendra
www.abusywomanslife.com

marlece said...

AMY, IF WE WOULD JUST TAKE THE TIME!!! This is amazing, I have tears, all it takes is 10 minutes and you made this sweet woman's day on her big day. Oh my gosh, what a lesson learned here. AMAZING!!

*****Shelly***** said...

Love this, Amy! Thank you for your inspiration...

Deidra said...

Beautiful!

Stacy said...

What a beautiful post and what a beautiful God. He calls us to live to bless others and in doing so, we ourselves are blessed.

Thank you for sharing such a sweet moment~

~Stacy

Eileen said...

This reminded me of my grandma. She turned 91 last month. Great story telling, I could picture this scene. :)

Slamdunk said...

Wonderful message Amy.

When I worked in policing on the overnight shift, we would have regular callers who wanted to talk to police. The reasons changed each time, but it often became clear that they just were lonely and wanted company.

seashore said...

What an inspiring story!

dawnbright said...

Girl, you inspire me! That's all I can say!

Jenn said...

Amy thanks so much for coming by and reading my blog entry. What a powerful entry you have.. such a sweet blessing to thank of how you blessed that woman..and she blessed you. I am going to send some of the shut in's from my church a card tommorow just because you inspired me. God bless you

Jenn said...

by the way i love your picture.. you look so full of life.. i see Jesus all over!

Connie@raise your eyes said...

What a tremendous blessing, both for you and her!

Some of the friendships I treasure the most have been with people in their 80's and 90's...but they keep leaving me and skipping on into Heaven!

Kristin Bridgman said...

What a sweet post! I find the lonely in the homeless. CHeck out my post and you can meet some of them. I hope by bringing them a blanket for winter, a Bible, and my friendship, that it helps some.

David Rupert said...

Amy...I featured you today!
http://www.thehighcalling.org/hcb-community/family/community-post-pulling-weeds

Tiffini said...

now this..this is what christ following is all about..you inspire me
xo

Paula said...

Hi Amy. I found your blog via The High Calling. Thank you for blessing my heart with this post. Paula :)

GLENDA CHILDERS said...

One thing that amazes me about this story . . . is the beautiful way this single woman invested in people her whole life . . . enough to receive a room full of cards.

Thanks, Amy, for all you do to help us want to invest.

Fondly,

Glenda

Beck Gambill said...

So sweet, what a gift you were part of her celebration! I wrote about a single, elderly woman who had lived her life in service, loved by so many, as well today!

Kelli said...

This is such a beautiful story. Reaching out to a neighbor or someone who would just like to sit and talk is a great thing. Thanks for this reminder that we are to love our neighbor as ourself!

amandatdodson said...

Isn't it funny when we go to bless someone else, we leave w/ the blessing? This made me smile.

binaspad.net said...

In a world where technology reigns, the art of picking out the perfect card and handwriting a greeting has nearly died. I loved reading this reminder that it means something to send REAL mail to someone...and it left me wanting to go buy a few cards to mail out today.

...which I am now leaving to do.

Thanks for this!!

Susan DiMickele said...

So glad to see this at THC community post. Yeah! Great story as always.

Laura@OutnumberedMom said...

Oh, Amy. This made me think of my 86 year old mom and the people who minister to her. What a blessing you all were to this woman!

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